For all the women and men considering giving up on love. DONT.
What life has taught me is, while I’ve been in love a few times, those men were NOT in love with me. We can’t always control who we fall in love with. But we can control what actions we take and how close we get to someone who doesn’t feel or treat us the same.
Don’t allow yourself to have a cold shoulder or become bitter toward another man, that really could fall in love, just because you’ve been burned.
It’s a blessing to fall in love with someone that isn’t in love with you in return. It’s a hard lesson but you learn to love yourself in a way that you will never settle for less again. So don’t be angry anymore. Don’t feel used. Feel gifted. You found love for yourself without someone’s help. And you know what it’s like to love someone else.
Keep your head up. Stay encouraged. And be selective with your heart. Cut ties. Block numbers. Be your own friend. But do not stay in love where it isn’t returned. Do not look for a rebound or revenge. That’s not how you heal.
You deserve better than that. Love isn’t ugly. Love doesn’t lie. Love won’t hurt you. Love isn’t going to play with your feelings. Love isn’t going to choose someone else over you.
So don’t become disgusted with what you feel love is just because of what someone in your past showed you.
PS I genuinely love you. That’s why I’m willing to expose myself and my story just to teach a world of hurting souls how to love.
Because I had to learn from my own broken heart. Be blessed. Spread hope. Share love.
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